In the West, our child raising practices are not wise, as they break apart the bond between mother and child. Why do we do this?

The Mother is deeply unhappy. In the smaller picture to the left, is this couple having a dinner with their friends. They want life to be like it was before they had their baby. They want to feel their “freedom” as parents. They go out to dinner without their child, because it is socially less accepted to bring infants into nice restaurants.

By not holding and physically contacting their child, they thwart their child’s developmental process. The child feels constantly needy, he is unloved, or only partially loved. He experiences life as suffering.